How to Know if Your Spouse Cheats?
Talking and listening to your spouse is the best approach you can take if something tells you that they are cheating. There are however some ambiguous signs and other situations that you may refuse to believe what you’re hearing and seeing. Check out these signs and see for yourself whether your husband or wife is cheating and get this over with.
Number 1. You found a condom in his wallet or car – this is basically a red flag particularly if you have had vasectomy and found contraceptive pills or if you are taking pills yourself. When you try to confront them regarding this matter, their response is often defensive and seems to evade the question.
Number 2. Obsessed about staying healthy and fit – your husband or wife might possibly have enrolled on a gym, gets a makeover or has undergone a cosmetic surgery despite telling him/her that you love them. If this is the case, then there is a possibility that they’re not trying to look gorgeous for you but for someone else and that your spouse is cheating.
Number 3. They bought a new phone or has created a new social networking account or email – this is given actually as anyone who’s been in a relationship can tell quickly that having a separate account means that he or she is hiding something.
Number 4. Working late all time – if your spouse constantly tell you that he or she will be working late and hasn’t seen their pay slip or has not received extra cash on payday, this can be a sign that they’re in a secret relationship with someone.
Number 5. Being helpful with the laundry – if for example that your man is thoroughly checking their clothes before throwing it in the washing machine, then this can give you a sign that something is wrong.
Number 6. Come back home with a different scent – better watch out for a red lipstick mark anywhere on his shirt particularly around the collar, which is actually a very classic sign that your spouse is cheating.
Number 7. Lose of intimacy – most of the time, a cheating wife or husband would not want to sleep with you. According to psychologists, this might be because of their guilt feeling over engaging in infidelity or he/she might do the opposite and want to have sex all time. They’re just releasing their sexual tension and imagining another man or woman as they do it with you.